Welcome to the world of digital dating in 2024, where finding a match is like discovering a rare art masterpiece doesn’t matter if you are in the city or a suburbs dating hasn’t been the same since AOL instant messenger and Facebook. In this blog we are going to help you navigate this web of connections in hopes of finding that person whether its a casual encounter or a long-term relationship.
When opening yourself up to relationships and dating a few things remain constant and that constant thing is your availability to other people, in the past your relationships were based off the people you were likely to encounter on the daily whether its work, school, church or the occasional club scene. Now you have access to thousands of potential suiters and thousands of potential suiters have access to you, likes and follows have change the dynamics of relationships because a person can gesture interest just by clicking on a few photos. We humans are social creatures and the attention we are given through the internet is a powerful thing!
How do we distinguish a person’s genuine interest in getting to know you or just wanting to knock your socks offs? The answer begins with your own profile. Look through your Insta profile, TikTok profile and other social media and think of it as a resume or the beginning of one. If your profile embodies business, travel and adventure your circle will include people with the same interest as you, you’re likely to meet a man or women that has a business or prospects of having one and they will gravitate to your journey. If your profile is full of sexually explicit photos and lustful images you will have the opposite sex lusting over what they see instead of looking for a person they would like to build with, they will be looking for a challenge of intimacy. If we’re being honest if you are looking for casual encounters this will be of no surprise but if you are actively seeking love or a partnership ask yourself what you have to offer, what motivates you as person and stand on those principles whether you engage in dating online or in a casual dating scene.
Now let’s talk about about how we get from sliding in a person’s dm’s to an actual face to face encounter. What is your line up questions? Choose wisely because this will help determine if a person is interest you or if you interest them, 90% of the time if you’re in a person’s dm’s the first thing that got your there wasn’t a cat picture. You’ve seen a person’s profile, you found them attractive you traded a few likes and now you’ve got their attention enough to respond back to you, but just as easy as it was for you to trade these gestures because we’ve entered a digital space it’s likely you aren’t the only one who’s done it how do you avoid being ghosted. I say just keep it 100 and try to move away from the messenger and engage in a phone conversation everyone’s online navigating what and who’s the real deal and who’s a fake and the easiest way to get past that is to remove the internet factors once you’ve made that engagement and get to a real social interaction.
Remember when traversing the dating scene remember to be as honest and upfront as possible and leave something to the imagination, enjoy each other’s company and attempt to establish a connection.
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